I read this beautiful quote from Sister Bednar yesterday. Just what I needed. I feel like I need to follow the counsel in that blessing as well.
"My husband was enrolled in a demanding doctoral program at Purdue
University far away from our families and familiar surroundings. We had
two small children, very little money, limited time to spend together as
a family, and we were having difficulty balancing the rigors of
graduate school, family responsibilities, and church assignments. Does
this situation sound familiar? Well, this daunting task began to take
its toll, and I found myself feeling very overwhelmed with my
responsibilities as a wife and a "stay-at-home mother." The feelings I
felt were not necessarily unique to me or my circumstances. After
considerable contemplation, I remember asking my husband for a
priesthood blessing. In this blessing I WAS PROMISED THAT I COULD BEGIN
TO BETTER COPE WITH MY DIFFICULTIES IF I WOULD EXERCISE CONSISTENTLY,
GET MORE SLEEP, EAT PROPERLY, HAVING MEANINGFUL PRAYER NIGHT AND
MORNING, AND ENGAGE IN DAILY SCRIPTURE STUDY. The reason I remember so
vividly the instruction I received is because I thought afterwards:
"This is going to solve my problems? These are standard 'Sunday School'
answers. Besides, I'm already doing some of these things." Does this
attitude sound a bit hard-hearted? Maybe if the message had been to take
a vacation to the beach, or sign up for an art class, or have my nails
done, I would have been more receptive to the counsel. I guess I was
searching for different solutions, and I balked at the banality of what I
had been counseled to do. I pondered the blessing, and over a period of
time I came to know and understand that these inspired admonitions were
plain and simple, yet profound. As I moved from casual observance to a
more steadfast and heartfelt implementation of these principles in my
life, I discovered a sense of emotional peace, a feeling of physical
well-being, and a spiritual confidence that brought tremendous blessings
to my life. Like those in Moses' day, all I had to do was to "look!""
(Susan Bednar, "To Look," Brigham Young University-Idaho Devotional,
September 10, 2002, www.byui.edu/Presentations/Transcripts/Devotionals/2002_09_10_BednarS.htm.)
Just what I needed :) Thanks for posting this, April. You are such a good example!
ReplyDeleteI've been having these very same thoughts, April. About making sure the basic essentials are taken care of because somehow everything else will be easier to handle if I know I'm putting first things first. I pray we'll both get there... Love you.
ReplyDeleteHey, I was in the audience at that devotional! Sister Bednar always gives great talks. You'll have to look up the one about modesty. I wish I remembered the name of it. But it still has an impact on me to this day. Thanks for the good quote, and a nice trip down memory lane to my good ol' days at BYU-I.
ReplyDeleteOh thank you! I needed this too!
ReplyDeleteYup. I'm pretty sure I need this every other day! ;)
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